Releasing wants

my dear friend I love you very

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much even though I am consciously choosing to leave the physical body I can never leave you. you will always be with me in my heart. everyone who has taken the course or will in the future will continue to have my unlimited support. sharing the method with you is the Fulfillment of a promise I made to each and every graduate. your gains your

insights and the freedom that you reap from your releasing is my biggest thank you. I am deeply grateful for you allowing me to share this wonderful gift with you. to take full advantage of this gift I suggest that you do the following. determine to keep releasing until you have all the goodness and all the freedom that is available to you.

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including the ultimate goodness and freedom of complete imperturbability by releasing the three

wants. support each other in achieving the ultimate goal. put aside all your ego differences and work together on sharing

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this precious gift of releasing with the world please rejoice in my passing do

not mourn the death of my body and know that beingness can never die my awareness has gone to a much better

place. remember I will never leave you much love Lester.

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 titled the world as a dream. the world as you now see it is

really a of your imagination and when you see the truth the world turns out to be a dream a fiction created in your

mind. first you will see it as a dream, then you will see it as a dream that never really was. in fact you will

experience it exactly as you do a night dream. while you are in a night dream you have a body there are other bodies there is action interaction. there is good and there is bad and so  as long as you remain in that night dream everything

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there seems real to you but when you awaken from the Night Dream you say my gosh it was just a dream it never really

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happened it was all a dream this is exactly the same manner in which you will awaken from this dream

called The Waking State you will come to see that it was only a creation of your imagination only a dream and then you

will let go of it Lock Stock and Barrel and what you will be left with is the infinite

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you. then you will call yourself fully realized totally free. actually we are fully realized all the time that is part of the irony we are fully realized beings saying that we are not so all we have to do is let go of quote we are not unquote and what is left over is the fully realized and free being that we are. moving on to the unstuck chart road map  The Vicious Circle so number one

we start with a problem we become insecure we try to figure it

out we want to know what to do we want to know what the answer is we try harder

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we disapprove of ourselves we beat ourselves up even more we still hold on to the

problem and then it's begins again number 2 we start with a problem we become insecure we try to figure it out we want

to know what to do we want to know what the answer is we try harder we disapprove of ourselves we beat ourselves up more we still hold on to

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the problem and so on and so on that's the vicious circle

so let's talk about wants and letting go of the three wants 

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 questions about wants

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and wanting and letting go of the wants and what that means and how you do that because see again the mind is trying to

figure it out that's our biggest stumbling block when we first you know try to start releasing or try to we we

try to wrap our minds around this uh technique this method uh but that's that's not going to work cuz the mind is

 the mind is a liar it's a big old fiber it's just it's doing its thing we got to love it

because it's trying to uh protect us it it's a survival mechanism yeah we got to figure this problem out we got to figure

out a solution and so on and so on so back to wants okay want is the most negative word in the English

language uh if you look in the dictionary uh some of the definitions of want is a state of extreme

poverty uh want is lack right so it's deprivation it's imp impoverishment

poorness the state of having little or no money or few or no material possessions but it's more than just that

it's it's as I said a state of extreme poverty just across the board that's a state of

want um want is the state of needing something that is absent or

unavailable it's a deficiency lack as I said

um famine shortage acute insufficiency tightness um

scurity anything that is necessary lacking it can also be a specific

feeling of desire and a desire is the feeling that accompanies an unsatisfied state

 want as a verb is to feel or have a desire for want

strongly um a craving a lust a hunger a thirst

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starving um and a feeling of suffering from the lack of fill in the

blank and wants aren't feelings but they definitely have a feel to them

so wants are not feelings but they have a feel to them wanting approval has a kind of gimme gimme feeling to it a

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kind of neediness to it wanting control on the other hand has a harder feeling

it's a little more pushy and assertive remember there is nothing

wrong with giving or receiving approval or being in control it's not the actual state that limits us but the wanting

it releasing on the wants is more powerful and deeper than releasing on the emotions and

feelings when you let go of a want you are letting go of a piece of everything and like Larry used to say

it's like a tissue box so you pull a tissue up and another tisue isue pops up beneath it so if you look at that as

releasing different wants wanting control wanting safety security um wanting approval you release that want

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like a tissue and the next one pops up and up and up so it's almost like never ending but the more you release the

Freer you become and um it says in here that all

pain and misery comes from wanting approval and control and I would say also so safety security which is another

way of saying wanting love exactly it's another way of saying wanting love all joy and Bliss comes from giving approval

and giving up control which is another way of saying giving love it comes from being

yourself so if you think about it uh about wanting wanting approval wanting control wanting safety security so

wanting approval is actually a lacking approval feeling right wanting control is an outof control feeling and lacking

control feeling wanting to be safe SL secure is a lacking safety secure

feeling so Larry used to say you can't stand up and sit down at the same time right you can't want and have at the

same time they are two opposite Energies

 the six steps in the method and the first step is it

 you must want imperturbability more than you want approval control and security 

 number two is decide you can do the method and be imperturbable three see all your

feelings culminate in three wants the want of approval control and security  survival see that immediately and

immediately let go of the want of approval want to control and the want of security survival four make releasing

constant five if you're stuck let go of wanting to control the stuckness six each time you release you

are happier and lighter if you release continually you will be continually happier and

lighter and that's where the line comes in could it get any better can I let go

and find out could it get any better could could I let go and find out and the answer is always yes by the way so when you're

doing the Release Technique or you're releasing and you're releasing on wants whether it's control

approval security safety someone two or all three and each one that comes up or each one that you're releasing

on  you you say can it get any better can I let go and find

 but the mind isn't our enemy it's

 just trying to do what it's supposed to do and keep us safe it's a survival mechanism especially the

reactive mind the lower the lower brain section

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so ask your mind if it knows the solution to your question or problem so if you ask your mind it doesn't know it

it actually never knows it's just trying to figure it out it's constantly just trying to figure it out or come up with this solution right so it doesn't know

the answer so you've been looking in a filing cabinet over and over and there's no answer

there can you see how silly that is number two could could you let go of

wanting to figure things out the question really is when you're releasing is Could I Let Go of

wanting to figure things out Could I Let Go of wanting to know what to

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do could I let go of wanting to know the answers Could I Let Go of wanting to

know anything for this moment right now and again and again and

again Could I Let Go of wanting to think and again and again and again so

when you're asking the question for example Could I Let Go of wanting to figure things out the answer is always yes like I said

like this well I'm going to be honest I'm going to say no I I want to you know I want to figure figure this out I'm not

going to just say yes I don't believe it right that's pretty common so but the answer is here's the key listen to the

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question Could I Let Go of wanting to figure things out right could I the

answer is always yes of course of course you could now are you going to do it

yes so could I let go of wanting to figure things out

yes yes yes yes so that's the key Could I Let Go

yes because that's the truth you could you you could let go of trying to figure things

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out now have you been beating yourself up for not having an answer to whatever problem

issue that comes up how does that help you get an answer it doesn't it's a decision you have to make

I'm going to love myself and be positive or I'm going to beat myself up and be negative which one do you choose

I'm assuming you're going to be positive and love yourself now can I let go of

disapproving of myself right now and again and again and again the answer is yes yes Could I Let Go of

disapproving of myself right now yes yes and more yes could I give myself

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approval even for no reason could I just give myself some approval yes

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yes yes now here's some key questions that

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can help us get unstuck or help us with releasing  I believe it was called the

general releasing sheet 

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you can also release on in other words release just means Let It Go and you're asking you're asking the question can I

let this go and the answer is always yes and then the more you do it the more you become lighter and Freer and so on so some of these questions  are who or what am I afraid of now who or what am I

afraid of now who or what do I want to control

now whose approval do I want now am I insecure now or am I feeling

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insecure now and then the question becomes if you if the answer is yes can I let that go

and then release on it what is the worst thing that could happen to me right

now who or what am I resisting now could I let go of protecting myself with

fear Could I Let Go of protecting myself with fear Could I Let Go of being so smart

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and allow it to be other than I think it is this is a really uh powerful one

really really good question to ask could I Let go of being so smart and allow it to be other than I think it

is Could I Let Go of resisting beingness 

 the deeper questions  as you go on your path  I will leave you with these Could I Let Go of wanting to

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control my unfoldment Could I Let Go of wanting Divine

love Could I Let Go of wanting security from my unfoldment or Freedom. Could I Let Go of wanting

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Oneness with the Self. Could I Let Go of wanting to control

Freedom. Could I Let Go of wanting to understand freedom.

2 minutes, 30 secondsincluding the ultimate goodness and freedom of complete imperturbability by releasing the three